One of the ways to keep your relationship from falling into a rut is to try some of the 10 sex ideas for couples. During the early days of a relationship, having fun, exciting sex is easy. But over time, it is easy to fall into a routine. Sex can almost become a chore- something you do because that’s what couples do. But, it doesn’t have to be that way. If you and your partner are open to a little adventure, and you’re both willing to expand your boundaries, then these ten sex tips will help.
1.Use role play. Plan to meet your partner at a predetermined location. Each of you should dress to play a role. For example, the guy can be a cowboy, and the woman can be a “lady of the evening.” Pretend you’ve just met, flirt, and engage in a hookup.
2.Give your partner an oil massage. Get a butter warmer to heat the oil. Use it to slowly massage your partner’s entire body. This is an exceptionally erotic activity. Plan ahead, because this is a messy activity. Also, be careful not to get the oil too hot. You may need to pour it into another container to cool it a bit.
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Reenact a sexy movie scene. Decide on a scene together, get the props, and recreate the scene from a movie such as “Pretty Woman”.
4.Stay in bed all day and make love. Some people like to do this at a hotel or vacation spot, but it can be done at home. Spending the whole day in bed gives you time to explore each other fully. It’s also a good time to fully satisfy the female partner’s desire for cuddling after sex.
5.Find out what your partner’s fantasy is and make it come true. You may be surprised by what you learn. Hopefully, your partner will reciprocate and fulfill one of your fantasies.
6.Engage in competitive physical activity before sex. Many couples report that things like playing tennis with each other before intercourse enhances the sex experience. You can also compete together against another couple. Some couples like to combine the oil massage with a playful wrestling match.
7.Initiate early morning sex. Sex isn’t only for the night. Get up a little early and begin massaging and kissing your partner until she wakes up. Things will develop from there. Morning sex starts the day off right for any couple.
8.Make a date for sex during lunch. This sex is usually intense but fast. Men especially need these quick releases. The time pressure, however, adds an element of excitement for both partners.
9.Meet your partner at the door naked when she comes home. The spontaneity and surprise of this tip makes it a favorite among couples and can lead to the use of new positions and new locations besides the bedroom.
10.Have sex partially clothed. Most couples get fully naked for sex. But, by staying partially clothed, couples can recapture the passion of youth when sex often had to be furtive and quick to avoid getting caught.
Wednesday 16 July 2014
Romance; 5 ways, woman to enjoy S**X
just read a post that reminded me of a similar post here when Dear Myne just started, of a newly wedded wife who had pains each time she tried to have sex with the husband. Check it out, [Dear Myne - It is Difficult to have Sex with my Husband! ] there are loads of very informative comments. This one is about of a young wife who is wondering if she’s circumcised and if that’s a reason she does not enjoy sex with her husband of 2 years.
On the issue of circumcision and pleasure during sex, I know that even circumcised ladies enjoy sex, so no one need worry about that. For those who really want to know, you can put a mirror between your legs and look at your vagina. If there is a protruding part at the top of the two side lips, you’re not circumcised.
For the lady who did not enjoy sex, I had some questions,
1. Have you ever pleasured yourself? That is the first way to know what works for you. Use your fingers and touch yourself, no need to even put it inside you, just play with your outer lips, and imagine you’re enjoying sex with your husband.
2. Do you guys have any foreplay before the main sex? Slow your husband from going in immediately. Spend time kissing, on the lips, neck, ears, back, and touching your bodies slowly, direct him to those parts that you know you like and give you pleasure.
3. What do you think about when having sex with your husband? The brain is the most important sex organ. If you’re worrying about work, your friends, your baby, the people in the house, how your breast sag to the sides, or your husband’s face in sex, you will be distracted. Focus on what you like about the sex and enjoy it.
4. Do you get well lubricated and wet? If not, talk to your husband and buy a lubricant. The simplest is KY Jelly, and choose the water based one. There are some advanced ones that also contain stuff to excite you directly and increase your pleasure.
5. Do you read? What do you think of adult videos, or books with some love and sex scenes. If you hate such stuff, it may be hard for you to enjoy sex in real life. If they excite you, then watch some, or read a book just before you have sex with your husband, it will put you in the mood.
These are the points I could think of, did I miss anything?
On the issue of circumcision and pleasure during sex, I know that even circumcised ladies enjoy sex, so no one need worry about that. For those who really want to know, you can put a mirror between your legs and look at your vagina. If there is a protruding part at the top of the two side lips, you’re not circumcised.
For the lady who did not enjoy sex, I had some questions,
1. Have you ever pleasured yourself? That is the first way to know what works for you. Use your fingers and touch yourself, no need to even put it inside you, just play with your outer lips, and imagine you’re enjoying sex with your husband.
2. Do you guys have any foreplay before the main sex? Slow your husband from going in immediately. Spend time kissing, on the lips, neck, ears, back, and touching your bodies slowly, direct him to those parts that you know you like and give you pleasure.
3. What do you think about when having sex with your husband? The brain is the most important sex organ. If you’re worrying about work, your friends, your baby, the people in the house, how your breast sag to the sides, or your husband’s face in sex, you will be distracted. Focus on what you like about the sex and enjoy it.
4. Do you get well lubricated and wet? If not, talk to your husband and buy a lubricant. The simplest is KY Jelly, and choose the water based one. There are some advanced ones that also contain stuff to excite you directly and increase your pleasure.
5. Do you read? What do you think of adult videos, or books with some love and sex scenes. If you hate such stuff, it may be hard for you to enjoy sex in real life. If they excite you, then watch some, or read a book just before you have sex with your husband, it will put you in the mood.
These are the points I could think of, did I miss anything?
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