Men love sex. We do. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Many women also love sex, although few of them quite as much as we do. If, however, you learn how to touch your woman in ways no man has ever touched her before, your chances of getting more sex from her will increase tenfold. That said, here are seven parts of her body you might want to head to before you get your freak on. Not only will you arouse her immensely, you’ll show her that you know that sex isn’t simply about penetration alone.
1- Spine
While you should never massage the spine directly, feel free to use your tongue or fingers to glide up it every now and then. To drive her crazy, let your tongue graze over the little hairs on her back. Or, you can always use your fingers to tickle your way up to her neck.
2- Behind the neck
Believe it or not, for some women, the back of the neck is the spot that makes them melt. Next time you kiss your girl, move her hair away from her neck (if applicable) and breathe on her neck, letting your lips graze against it before you kiss and then lightly bite into it.
3- Scalp
While you’re kissing your girl, put your hands on the back of her head and massage her scalp for a minute. Feel free to give her hair a little tug from the roots; it will heighten her senses.
On to the other four parts you’re probably ignoring…
4- Shoulders
From kissing and massaging to lightly biting, the shoulders are an oft-ignored body part, but they should be given some serious attention. Because this area of a woman’s body is often neglected, when you do spend some time appreciating her shoulders, she will get the chills and, in turn, you will get your thrills.
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5- Breasts (not nipples)
We tend to instinctively head straight for the nipples and only grab on to the breasts when we want to bring the nipples closer to our mouths. However, if you want her nipple to beg for your attention, you need to spend some time kissing and caressing the surrounding area — the breast. Lick and bite near the nipples without actually touching them and she’ll be begging you to wrap your mouth around them.
6- Outer labia
As with the breast, when it comes to the vagina, we tend to dive right into the wet spot and ignore the outer lips. Assuming she’s well-groomed, use your mouth and tongue to lick and kiss the labia majora of your woman’s vagina and when you finally head on in, she’ll be soaked.
7- Ankles
It’s somewhat anticlimactic to finish off with it, I know, but some women love having their feet kissed and touched. But rather than her feet, opt to kiss and caress her ankles instead. Be careful; don’t bite the area because it can hurt her.
Friday, 4 July 2014
Thursday, 3 July 2014
4 best places to have sex outside bedroom
Though having s*x is one of nature’s strongest instincts, it is often put at the bottom of the priority list. A University study of married couples found that just 32 percent said they had s*x at least a few times per week. The usual reasons contributed to this low number — including conflicting career pressures and the demands of raising a family.
Couples don’t need a getaway to crank up their s*x lives, though. Take a look at these four places in your own home to have s*x that may not have crossed your mind:
1. The Office
Is your husband or wife coming to visit in the office? Put the sexy back into your home office space by spicing it up in the off hours — or even on your lunch break. If your desk is too cluttered for comfort, use your desk chair. Even standing or lying on the floor will raise the level of adventure in your s*x session and make you and your partner feel very naughty in the workplace.
2. The Laundry Room
Let’s face it — laundry/utility rooms are probably the most boring rooms in the home. You and your partner likely don’t spend a lot of time in yours unless you have to be there cleaning or ironing. Use the mundane nature of these rooms to ignite some passion — particularly in the moment when it is least expected. Use the good vibrations of the washing machine or the heat from the dryer to kick up the intensity of your love-making.
3. The Backyard
The opportunities for recharging your s*x life using the outdoor features of your home are really endless. Consider the following places: pool, hot tub, patio chair, patio table, garage cabinets/shelving or storage units. You can even just lay down on a blanket under the stars and pretend you are holding each other somewhere much more exotic. Having s*x outside crosses the line between private and public exposure, heightening the feeling of danger in the experience — and boosting adrenaline.
4. The Stairs
It may not sound like the most comfortable spot but the stairs provide many angles for s*xual experiences. Take turns sitting on the steps or try standing positions with support from the railing. The memory alone can be a turn-on later in the day or night.
Where have you had s*x in your home outside the bedroom?
Couples don’t need a getaway to crank up their s*x lives, though. Take a look at these four places in your own home to have s*x that may not have crossed your mind:
1. The Office
Is your husband or wife coming to visit in the office? Put the sexy back into your home office space by spicing it up in the off hours — or even on your lunch break. If your desk is too cluttered for comfort, use your desk chair. Even standing or lying on the floor will raise the level of adventure in your s*x session and make you and your partner feel very naughty in the workplace.
2. The Laundry Room
Let’s face it — laundry/utility rooms are probably the most boring rooms in the home. You and your partner likely don’t spend a lot of time in yours unless you have to be there cleaning or ironing. Use the mundane nature of these rooms to ignite some passion — particularly in the moment when it is least expected. Use the good vibrations of the washing machine or the heat from the dryer to kick up the intensity of your love-making.
3. The Backyard
The opportunities for recharging your s*x life using the outdoor features of your home are really endless. Consider the following places: pool, hot tub, patio chair, patio table, garage cabinets/shelving or storage units. You can even just lay down on a blanket under the stars and pretend you are holding each other somewhere much more exotic. Having s*x outside crosses the line between private and public exposure, heightening the feeling of danger in the experience — and boosting adrenaline.
4. The Stairs
It may not sound like the most comfortable spot but the stairs provide many angles for s*xual experiences. Take turns sitting on the steps or try standing positions with support from the railing. The memory alone can be a turn-on later in the day or night.
Where have you had s*x in your home outside the bedroom?
Wednesday, 2 July 2014
Monday, 30 June 2014
Keshi & Yobo quits Nigeria
Super Eagles coach, Stephen Keshi and the team captain Joseph Yobo have both resigned from Super Eagles after failing to qualify to the quarter-final stage of the 2014 World Cup, Vanguard reports.
Speaking this evening after the Eagles lost to France in the round of 16, Keshi said it was time to move on.
“I have to go back to my family and face fresh challenges,” Keshi said.
Speaking this evening after the Eagles lost to France in the round of 16, Keshi said it was time to move on.
“I have to go back to my family and face fresh challenges,” Keshi said.
Sunday, 29 June 2014
For Ladies, Top 10 ways you can make your man yours forever
when your hubby comes home in the evening. You say to him, “Honey I’m so glad you’re home. It’s been a really stressful day but all I could think about was coming home to you. I’m so glad I married you.”
1. A man needs to feel your respect in order to love you the way you want to be loved. Tell and show your man you respect and admire him. Let him know that you appreciate the things he does for you. Remember, what you do and say must be genuine.
2. Problem solving is your man’s way of showing he cares. Men like to problem solve. So when your man drives you crazy telling you to do x, y and z in certain situations that’s his way of taking care of the problem and therefore taking care of you. So don’t take it so personally.
3. Show your man he’s needed. Leman says showing your husband he’s needed is almost an art form. It’s so easy and the results are worth the effort. Leman gives the example of when your hubby comes home in the evening. You say to him, “Honey I’m so glad you’re home. It’s been a really stressful day but all I could
think about was coming home to you. I’m so glad I married you.”
Then Leman says, “slip him the commercial.” By that he means ask for what you want. “After you relax would you mind helping Cassie with her homework while I finish up dinner. Then she’ll get to bed on time and we can relax a little together.”
Leman says this is great because 1. You tell him you’re glad to see him. 2. You ask for his help with a specific thing. 3. You promised a reward—time with you. According to Leman, your words take so little time but they mean so much.
4. Sex with your husband is essential to a lasting marriage. Leman says sexual fulfillment affirms the very core of who a man is—it affirms his masculinity. It intensifies his drive to protect you, to take care of you, to love you and to provide for you. According to Leman, if you are intimate with your husband, he will seek no other (chronic cheaters do not apply).
5. Give direct requests to your man. You need to be direct when expressing what you want, Leman says. Men don’t get hints or subtlety. Be specific and straightforward.
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6. Reinforce good behavior. Leman says when your man is doing something right, reinforce it and tell him how much you appreciate it. Brag about him in front of your friends and family.
7. Stay concise. Too much yapping will shut down your man’s attention, Leman says. So keep it short and sweet. Similarly, when you “nag” or yell, your man doesn’t hear you. Actually Leman says when you cry or scream your man will shut down and think you’re cuckoo.
8. Your man wants to please you. Leman urges women to remember this. Men want to please and provide for their woman and when they are unable to do something right, Leman says that is akin to someone telling a woman she’s fat AND ugly. You would take it personally. And they do too.
9. Tell your man once (or twice) what needs to be done. He knows and he remembers, says Leman, and he will get to it on his own time without having to be reminded 10 times. A great way to ask your man to do something, without coming off as “nagging,” is to write a “Honey to do list,” Leman says. Try it out, it may work for you.
10. Be selective while dating, but accepting while married. Leman says, date with your eyes wide open, but keep them half closed after you’re married.
1. A man needs to feel your respect in order to love you the way you want to be loved. Tell and show your man you respect and admire him. Let him know that you appreciate the things he does for you. Remember, what you do and say must be genuine.
2. Problem solving is your man’s way of showing he cares. Men like to problem solve. So when your man drives you crazy telling you to do x, y and z in certain situations that’s his way of taking care of the problem and therefore taking care of you. So don’t take it so personally.
3. Show your man he’s needed. Leman says showing your husband he’s needed is almost an art form. It’s so easy and the results are worth the effort. Leman gives the example of when your hubby comes home in the evening. You say to him, “Honey I’m so glad you’re home. It’s been a really stressful day but all I could
think about was coming home to you. I’m so glad I married you.”
Then Leman says, “slip him the commercial.” By that he means ask for what you want. “After you relax would you mind helping Cassie with her homework while I finish up dinner. Then she’ll get to bed on time and we can relax a little together.”
Leman says this is great because 1. You tell him you’re glad to see him. 2. You ask for his help with a specific thing. 3. You promised a reward—time with you. According to Leman, your words take so little time but they mean so much.
4. Sex with your husband is essential to a lasting marriage. Leman says sexual fulfillment affirms the very core of who a man is—it affirms his masculinity. It intensifies his drive to protect you, to take care of you, to love you and to provide for you. According to Leman, if you are intimate with your husband, he will seek no other (chronic cheaters do not apply).
5. Give direct requests to your man. You need to be direct when expressing what you want, Leman says. Men don’t get hints or subtlety. Be specific and straightforward.
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6. Reinforce good behavior. Leman says when your man is doing something right, reinforce it and tell him how much you appreciate it. Brag about him in front of your friends and family.
7. Stay concise. Too much yapping will shut down your man’s attention, Leman says. So keep it short and sweet. Similarly, when you “nag” or yell, your man doesn’t hear you. Actually Leman says when you cry or scream your man will shut down and think you’re cuckoo.
8. Your man wants to please you. Leman urges women to remember this. Men want to please and provide for their woman and when they are unable to do something right, Leman says that is akin to someone telling a woman she’s fat AND ugly. You would take it personally. And they do too.
9. Tell your man once (or twice) what needs to be done. He knows and he remembers, says Leman, and he will get to it on his own time without having to be reminded 10 times. A great way to ask your man to do something, without coming off as “nagging,” is to write a “Honey to do list,” Leman says. Try it out, it may work for you.
10. Be selective while dating, but accepting while married. Leman says, date with your eyes wide open, but keep them half closed after you’re married.
Saturday, 28 June 2014
For Guys only
GUYS ONLY: See The 7 secrets that women never tell their men 1It is a hidden fear among most women that other women in their man`s life, coworkers or female friends, may attract him more. The reason for it is quite simple, we all want to have something that we can`t have.
Women are known to be very open and extremely talkative creatures in comparison with men. But you`ll get surprised that not only men have some things to hide, but women also have some secrets. There is a mystery in every woman for a man to clear up. But unfortunately, only a few of them succeed. Though it is not that complicated to understand a woman, men have great difficulties with it. So here are some women`s secrets which I hope will help you to clear up the situation.
1. We want men to take initiative
It is a very important thing. We do not like to take care, to plan and to do all sorts of things by ourselves. We want men to take initiative. Though, we never tell about it, you should know that it is important that you carry out some difficult tasks or surprise us. When a man takes initiative it means that he is involved, that he is attentive and caring. Do it more often, no matter what kind of thing it is – list of stuff to buy, or prepare
dinner, or plan your next holiday.
2. We want to be surprised more often
All women go crazy with surprises, so we secretly dream about our partner to show his creativity and to astonish us as frequently as possible. Even a small unexpected sweet trifle will make a woman feel special and loved. It shouldn’t be an expensive gift, simply showing your initiative, concern and deep affection are priceless. It is not difficult, just be open and careful to your lady. When she realizes the fact that some effort has been taken to make her feel happy, you will be soon rewarded.
3. We are afraid that another women attract him more
It is a hidden fear among most women that other women in their man`s life, coworkers or female friends, may attract him more. The reason for it is quite simple, we all want to have something that we can`t have. So women are afraid that their man`s heart may be stolen or he will start fantasizing about another woman. There is nothing worse for a woman than that.
4. We want men to be sincere
Every person wants hisher partner to be always open and sincere no matter what. Nobody likes being fooled. And, of course, women are not the exception. We can forgive a lot of thing but not lies. Irrespective of the situation or how bad your fault is, a woman will always hear you out and even help you to solve the situation.
5. We notice and understand body language
Women are known to have a sixth sense, especially if it concerns relationships. We always notice and analyze all small details in another person, and that includes body language of our partners. So we usually are aware of his sympathy to a colleague, which we have never met. Once we notice something suspicious, it starts bothering us, though we may not be even aware of what exactly annoys us. And if a woman suspects something, she will be very upset when her man doesn`t spend time with her but stays in the office.
6. We agree with “Guy Time”
That is another secret that only a few men know about. A lot of women actually agree with “guy time”. We understand perfectly well that our husbands, boyfriends need some space for themselves, and that it is very important for them to spend some time with friends, watching football matches, drinking beer or playing various kinds of games. The only problem here may be when a woman feels lack of attention, while a man focuses only on spending time with friends.
7. We want their friends to like us
No woman will say this out loud. But it is so. His friends are very important for our men, so we want them to like us. This means that we want to show how we love our partner and what a beautiful person he is. Such tendency also helps to avoid unnecessary conflicts and arguments if we don`t like the friends or vice versa. Another reason for that is that his friends` sympathy for you will influence your partner`s decisions in various ways, which is, of course, to our advantage
Friday, 27 June 2014
Every thing change after our marriage
I’ve been married now for almost 3 years and my husband and I have never made love. I could say he was impotent but to be honest, I really do not know the reason why. We were both celibate and Christians before we were married, and it worked out for us as there was no pressure to go against our conscience.
After he proposed and we started marriage counselling, we began to discuss sex and he used to go into some small detail about how excited he was to be getting married, and especially to me, and some of the things we hoped to be able to do after we became man and wife.
I was a bit hesitant to talk so openly but I was glad he wanted and desired me. Also he initiated cuddles some months to our wedding so we could begin to get used to each other. We would kiss and fondle through our clothes and it was really lovely. Sometimes he was a bit erect, other times not so much, and he never pushed me to go further. I was comfortable with that because I truly believe that sex should only come after marriage.
Well, we did get married, and since then things changed. He used to be more touchy-touchy and hugging, but this has reduced drastically. On the night of our wedding, we didn’t even try, he said he was tired. On our honeymoon of two weeks, we did try, but nothing much happened, sometimes he got a small erection but it never lasted enough to go in and he would just stop after that.
His reason was that he was stressed, and felt like I was expecting so much from him. I told him I wasn’t. I am actually a virgin and other than my husband, there was only one other guy I had kissed and made out with before my marriage.
After we came back from the honeymoon, all affection just dried up. When I try to touch him, he moves away. And once we moved into the new three bedroom we got 6months after the wedding, he asked that we have separate rooms. That has been the death of our marriage, such as it was.
As you can imagine, this has caused a strain on our marriage. I care for my husband, but at this stage, he’s more of a brother or friend to me, someone I share a flat with. I don’t love him anymore. I’ve tried talking to him about this, but I get nowhere. The most depressing apart is that when I try to ask for other forms of sex he walks away. His excuse is that if we do that, I would expect more and he didn’t want to keep disappointing me. I’m not even allowed to see him naked. As a result, I have resorted to looking at porn.
Last month, I confronted him. My parents and his mother, though indirectly, were beginning to talk too much about their expected grandchildren that I couldn’t be too blind to see what they were asking for. We had a blazing row, and harsh words were hurled. He later apologized, and for the first time confided in me that he had an STI which may have scared him about having penetrative sex. He told me to get off his case or divorce him. I thought about it but I just couldn’t do that.
To make matters worse, both my husband and I are workers in the church. If I could, I would get out of this marriage without delay, but I feel trapped because of what our pastor and church members would say. How would I even tell them the reason for our divorce? Also, I feel like I’ve given so much to this relationship and I don’t know how to start all over again. What of if the next man proves to be just as bad, or worse?
I’m 33 years old this year and sometimes, it’s like my life is wasting away. I married with the hope of building a marriage of love with my husband, and having children. All those dreams have gone up in smoke. Only my career and church keeps me going, but the temptation is building to either damn it all and leave him, or have an affair. He travels a lot, so it’s not as if I can’t pull this off.
It’s not that I have no more feelings for my husband. He has never been abusive to me. Only that he cannot offer the love and TLC that I crave so desperately and is not understanding to meet me halfway. My self-esteem is at an all-time low. I have gained over 20kg since I got married because I feel totally undesirable. I just do not know what to do.
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